Hey Kimmer... are you wanting to get into discussion about how a MLCer transitions from replay to depression? Just curious. I've always wondered how one would know that, myself... Although from what I've read and seen, as it's stated, it's not necessarily linear so replay and anger and denial can be seen in further stages... so... IDK...

Anyhow, I wanted to put something out there that kml pointed out regarding your H's apparent OCD / paranoia / WTF??? crazy

My W is doing things now that she never did prior to 2 years ago... things like driving a big RV on a crowded, 2 lane highway... going places and doing things such as getting dirty on a farm or going bumming around in a bush or going to concerts she'd not have gone to (IMHO), etc, etc... for all I know she's pumping her own gas and using public washrooms without wiping the seat...

MLCers often do complete opposites of what they've done before... was your H like that "before" his apparent MLC, regarding radiation at the beach or rabies from feathers?