Question for some of the Vets.

Recently I have been question if I am talking to much to my W. Don't get me wrong I am not initiating contact, begging, or any other major no no. Just talking.

For example yesterday I had my sons and they engaged in their first brotherly game of chase. The 7mo old was chasing the 3y/o. I though it was pretty funny and when my wife arrived I told her about it. It seemed that the extra conversation moved my W along to leave faster.

I am confused as to how much conversation is too much. Is it a case of "don't speak unless spoken too"? Should I go "dark" unless it is something to do with the kids? Remain mysterious about everything?

It seems like friendly conversation would be ok. I don't know.


Me:27 W:30
S1:3y/o S2:8m/o
T:5
M:3
Bomb:5/16/12
W moved out:5/16/12