IF my W ever gives me a reason to lose trust in her again, I am done with my M to her. If she ever has contact with OM again (that can be attributed to her actions Jack), I am done wtih my M to her. I've been very clear with her on both of these points.
And how would you know, if not for a transparency plan?
I wouldn't say that there is no transparency. I'd just say that it is something that we haven't sat down and actually mapped out. She knows that I am watching. She busted me looking at her phone a few nights ago. I had punched in her access code and was looking at her text messages and she walked in on me. I just sat the phone down and didn't say anything. She asked me what I was doing. I told her that her phone had dinged (which it had) and that I was looking to see who had messaged her. She asked who it was, I told her, and that was it. There was nothing of concern on her message list or on her email.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
