I want you to know that no matter how much I downsize to stay in Hawaii, there will be a guest room in my house. And my DB friends will always be welcome to come test my tour guide skills!
I actually program all the tourist destinations into my Garmin, so I can loan it to visitors. And last night was making a list of the things I want to do weekly, monthly and yearly. Because Oahu is so beautiful, I sometimes forget to revisit the hot spots. Like Hanauma Bay..... Or Diamondhead.
Today is STBXH's birthday. Being as he was the only person who gave me a card this year, I will give him a card. And a small gift and make him his favorite birthday dinner tonight. The kids and grandkids are all coming over.
I will do this because one of his big problems in his life has been a problem with birthdays. He has hated them since his 27th birthday.I believe only a therapist will ever be able to get to the bottom of this with him. So I will just recognize the day for him. And not worry about anything else.
Heck, I'll probably celebrate his birthday without him in the future. His birthday dinner of choice is Cornish Game Hen. Which I am now a master at making. I'm trying to keep all my good memories. And his special birthday dinner has become an August 6th tradition almost equal to Thanksgiving in our house.
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!
