It's so tough when you are worried that your H will hurt himself or just put himself in bad situations.
Mine is getting very depressed again and was hospitalized on Wed for being severely dehydrated and passing out. I knew he hadn't been sleeping either, and made sure he ate/drink when he was at my place to drop off SS, but I can't make him take care of himself.
I'm trying to be supportive, but he's a grown man and I can't make him do anything he doesn't want to. I've been reading all of the books about codependency and realized that is how I treat him. So I've been trying to set boundaries so that I won't be more frustrated than I have to be.
I wish I could tell you something to make your sitch better, but I'm just taking it one day at a time. Keep praying for him, but realize that he has to do it on his own.
(((((((dawnmarie)))))))
M36 XH34 M-5 T7 4/11 H confused 5/11 ILYB 6/11 OW discovered 7/11 I move out, OW over 5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file 9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3 3/13 H/OW break up H files 4/13 D 6/18/13
