Need To Detach, But How?

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I am confident that she agrees, she is a very spiritual person and is very devoted to our church. And it would be separate from any birthday activities that might occur. Usually when we have an event like this there is a family dinner afterwards, but that will only occur if she offers. I don't want to be seen as pushing by bringing it up. I also feel pretty safe in saying that she will want to be there when he is ordained,