Need To Detach, But How?

[NASCARDaddy]

Your W may choose not to be a fool...

To be honest, I think that there are only two foolish things that my wife has done in this process. One is to wait this long to tell me that she was hurting and the other is dropping out of therapy. Everything else I can understand how what she has done makes sense, at least to her.

To be honest I think that part of the reason she became a WAW instead of sticking to it and trying to make things better is because that is how women in her family deal with marital hardship. Her mother, grandmother, great grandmother, and great great grandmother all divorced their husbands because of various problems in their relationships so it is the example that has been modeled for her. I am just hoping that we can find a way to break that cycle, if not for W's sake then for the sake of our two daughters.