zig, since your first posts here you've had these issues with the ILs. They have the ability to spin you and you can find within yourself the courage to say STOP.
It's lovely to have family but that doesn't mean you need to be caught up in their drama. Pick and choose who you want to talk with and for how long and about what.
This is where a boundary is so needed.
Would you invite these people into your life if they weren't attached to H?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
