MLC with depression....double the fun!

[timbits]

i completely understand worrying about their safety when you are having m issues. my h has major depression and anxiety. i just recently left the home and we are separated (he is starting another ea/pa), but i still worry if he will hurt himself. i think h is having an mlc, as well, and it's like living with a stranger, like my h has died and someone else has taken his place.

i really, really feel for you. it's very hard to put yourself first when you have been conditioned during the m to put his needs first. i'm starting to put myself first, to care for myself. you need to do the same.

best of luck with everything.