Need To Detach, But How?

[NASCARDaddy]

I know that adding a timeline creates added pressure. I just can't help it though. She is already dating and I am afraid that I will lose her forever if I can't fix things before the divorce becomes final. I am prepared to deal with that possibility if it comes to that; however I don't think that I could be happy with myself if I didn't do everything in my power to try and put things right. My problem seems to be that panic is setting in and I am letting my fears override what I know I should be doing.