That's a good idea. I will try that. With my H, it is probably the list of complaints more than name calling.
The only name I can really think of that he calls me is "slightly used crazy woman", which is what he will call me to other people. I don't know if that is to be mean or not. I've told him before that it hurt my feelings and he told me to lighten up.
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together