Need To Detach, But How?

[tonibertha]

I know you are scared right now, and it's only natural to be scared.

But engaging in convos like that seems like pursuit. Your wife needs space to miss you. So read Sandi's 37 rules again. You need to avoid all R talks for now (only validate where necessary).

When you give her way more space than she needs, she will start to re-think her need for space. It's counter-intuitive, but it works