Yeah, I had to go through that -- look at the things you just "assume" are W's job, like brushing D's hair, question why that's her job, and then for some of them, start thinking you own it too. WRT the mites, gross! That stuff happens with kids, though, so all you can do is go to the pharmacist and take care of it. You don't even have to mention it to W, I'm sure the kids will.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015