Inga - Just make sure in addition to your list of complaints your H has about you that you make a list of all the great things about yourself. I made a list of all the names/bad things my H called me and it was downright hilarious. My therapist told me that I also needed to make a list of good things to counteract his list, so I can start believing in myself again.
Hugs!
Me54, H53 M 23, T 25 S20, S18 BD: April 2024 Moved out: August 2024
Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.
"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page
