I am thinking that I will start at a month. I wish I could go for less time then that, particularly since I would like to be ab;e to reconcile before the court takes up the petition on or just after October 22nd. However you are absolutely right, I do have a lot to learn before I am even close to ready to move in that direction. I do appreciate the advice and the help. I will take all that you have said into consideration and I thank you for the help.
M 39, W 34 M 15 S 14, S 12, S 9, D 7, D 6 Separated: 7/2/2012 Served: 7/10/2012 Divorced 11/5/2012