Val, so people that fear being wrong or being discovered wrong project their problems upon a scapegoat, so much so that they actually believe it to be true and themselves justified. Hmmmmm this sounds familiar.

We cannot react back in kind as this fuels their justification. We cannot accept their belief as this fuels their truth with something we know is false. I hate to sound like a broken record, but at the risk of doing so the best thing we can do is stay detached marching to our truth, while they rail impotently.

S, XS STBXS or some numb nuts we’re working on a project with, doesn’t matter, it is all the same. As they rail impotently and we march to our truth the other people who matter and some who don’t, see the truth and if we’re fortunate stand up to be counted.

We’ve seen it and having seen it we take from it a lesson and a belief we must be doing something correct.

We want to get the best from people around us. You are absolutely correct bullying is not the path to follow. Bullying is the path people is choose when they scapegoat. It is not working well for them is it?

We’ve conversed enough for you to know my background, my former profession. Bullying doesn’t work, it is actively discouraged b/c it is counterproductive to getting the mission accomplished.

Leadership, discipline and personal belief in the objectives is what accomplishes missions. There are many traits of good leadership. One of the more obscure ones is good leaders also follow.

Oh and by the way Numb Nuts is a condition caused when an individual has their head stuck so far up their own anal orifice they have cut off blood flow to their testis. Strangely I have found this condition is not gender specific.

Peace and hugs (((((Val))))) you’ll get through to the other side.


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