BTW, my W said to me at one point... about a year or so ago...

in a very "pleased with myself" expression...

"...look at me! I'm such a b1tch!"

As though it was something to be proud of... from a context of not carrying what others thought of her because she was finally expressing her "true self"...

yeah right... I know her true self... that isn't it...

at least...

not mostly...