This morning before H's work gig he said he doesn't care how his crew is perceiving him, while he smoked his cigarette.
He's so gross now, stating that being a good guy didn't work because he's out of time (too old for this work, too old) and he's not were he should be in life.
He says being an "I don't give a sh@t guy" won't do him good either but he welcomes the burn to see if he can walk away from the ashes. OMG!
DM... please read about MLC.
Your H's comments are so very laced with depression it isn't even funny. Combined with the "too old and not where I should be" comment...
Strongly indicative of MLC.
I'm not saying he IS... I'm saying he is showing behaviours and language which ARE... very similar...
Be angry with his behaviours if you want...
He is possibly going through something that... whether you agree with the behaviours or not... is quite out of his control... he could change his behaviours...
if...
he had an option...
At least... with you...
You CAN control THAT...
Please educate yourself on MLC...
And after you do... THEN see if your feelings are still the same, regarding your H and his actions...
