What is your number one fear here? There's a lot of extraneous people and there stuff but how much of it belongs to you?

How likely is it the the 6 yr old knows enough of what's going on to tell your S anything that would turn his life upside down?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss