I think I am well and truly detached but then you don't ever know until something happens and you realise it's affecting you...so I think the big difference is I'm not scared of being attached or not.
Yes, I think that's it, you lose the fear. We hold on because we are afraid of what's beyond the R or whatever it is we are clinging to.
I agree that detachment cycles, just like all our emotions or states of being, but every day it gets better.
I'm having a not as detached as I thought day but I know I will get through it and life will go on. I won't feel this way forever.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
