New to separation. Am I doing the right things?

[25yearsmlc]

I am just so disgusted with W right now. W does a great job taking care of herself. Excersice, nice clothes, trying to look hot. Well, what about are damn kids, I am pissed! I have the kids this weekend and after seeing them, I am just blown away! I know this is a forum about working on ourselves and our marriages but the fact is, the kids also come into play. No wonder so many divorced parents despise their X's. I don't want it to come to that!

So our daughter now has 5 stitches on her forehead because her out of control cousin pushed her and daughter hit her head on a chair and she had to go to the ER, I get that. While I am not happy about it, there kids.



So you agree NO issue there, could have happened anywhere AND on your shift.
Let it go. Otherwise she'll use whatever mishaps happen Or never get to happen at your place, against you. Either you belive this statement or you don't. If you do, let it go.

I swear, it just keeps piling up. Today I noticed that our son has nails that are way too long,


this is ^^^ - I'm sorry - but laughable. Please don't go to a L or judge with THAT charge..."Omg the nails are too long".

What are you doing w/these types of criticisms?? Making sure your wife knows she did right to leave?

our daughter has a ton of tangled knots in her beautiful long blonde hair.

So take the tangle out like your wife has done for years, OR teach your d to do so. End of story....



To top it off, the kids now have a lot of black mites in their hair!!! Just sick! I am so furious with W right now.


Why is this HER fault? I'm curious. My h left us right before our 25th anniversary and we spent it in Italy without him.

The girls got lice. I never once blamed HIM and hope to God he never thought to blame me!

You just deal with it, hopefully, together like adults.


I don’t care how “busy” W is. If the kids were with me, they would have discipline and they would be taken care of and properly groomed. I just don’t know WTF to do right now!!!! This MUST be addressed, but in the right way.

listen to Bond on this, please