I'm a new person

[2chiquitos]

LITB- patience. It's what I struggle with all the time. Thank you for the reminder!

aww bustingout! I've been thinking of you too! I can do it!!

I went to an Al Anon mtg this morning. H got to our place and invited us to go to the zoo. We had a great time.

So I need advice...
H is taking the kids to his sister's. His friends will be there. I offered to pick up the kids so that he can have them at his sister's place longer. This is big for two reasons,

1-I searched the two of the wives out and told them about the affair. I was supposed to be in one of their weddings but got the boot when H n I separated. And although the she said I'd be invited to the wedding and bachelorette party, I wasn't. I was never really close to them to begin with. Just casual conversations. But it hurt!

2-They all deleted me from their fb when I blocked them. I called one of them up and told her I wanted them to understand that it was too hard for me to see Hs name tagged on their gatherings. She said she understood and wished me the best but never heard from her again.

It's going to feel so awkward for me. I asked H if he thinks they would feel uncomfortable and he said, no. I lied and said I wouldn't either. Then he said, he'd really like it if I hung out at his sister's and not leave suddenly. He said, it would look bad.

He always hated that about me. That I didn't enjoy spending time with his friends. I didn't because I needed to go home and care for our sick son! I couldn't party til 1am!