haha - KD -are you giving me permission without realizing it?
Actually, I was pretty much telling you that you should do something with H and then maybe settling down after your S goes to sleep and having a cuddle session with your H...
maybe...
OK, mention about the movie. Ask him what he thinks, maybe he'll offer for dinner as well. And then... see where that all takes you...
No pressure to him, though. Just be a supportive friend to him.