One of my long term goals is to be a better father. Spend more time with my boys. Take them more places, zoo, parks, Science center, etc. See them more often. This will be hard as I work a lot.
I know that my W has to figure this out on her own, the other night was just a little confusing. As I said at least it seems I am not the only one who is hurting. Not nice I know, but certainly makes me feel a little better.
Detaching is probably the hardest part. My sich is on my mind all the time. I am working on staying busy with my goals and doing things to keep my mind off the sitch. I am also working on making sure my goals are my own and not things to "win my W back". I have to remind myself frequently that I am doing these thing for me.
I certainly appreciate all the knowledge on this board. All of the vets that post for people like myself. So many of our sitchs sound so similar that all the advice seems practical. I hope everybody gets to a better place.
BTW a little more info. Me:27 W:30 S1: 3y/o S2: 7 m/o M:3 years T:6 years Walked out: 5/15/12
Me:27 W:30 S1:3y/o S2:8m/o T:5 M:3 Bomb:5/16/12 W moved out:5/16/12
