so nice to hear from you. and you are so right about not putting stock into him saying it might not work out with ow. he still wants the D, so that's all i'm hearing!!
and funny you talked about the mindfulness thing - as i read what you wrote, i realized that that's what i'm doing today - keep thinking about it but then shifting m mind to the present and what i truly need to deal with today.
i'm giving myself the 48hr rule on this one about s and ow meeting and see how i feel about it in a couple of days - also give the situation time to work itself out....in one way or another...
brit - i know you're really busy - so it's wonderful you took the time to post
we miss you , but we know you're having a blast so that is wonderful
love ya
zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"