Thanks db. I am thinking about starting a journal. When I think about texting or email, I conciously say to myself, "Is this necessary right now, or can it wait?" If I do it, I try to do it when I am pretty sure he is not working.

Today, the house cleaners will come. I started that 2 weeks ago and it has taken some pressure off of me. I am no domestic goddess. I am leaving on a trip with our D later this afternoon. H asked this am what time we were leaving, even though I told him in an email. I told him the time without reminding him that I had already told him. That is a small step for me.

I hope that you have a good day and do something for you today also.


M44 H57
D17 (special needs)
M 18 yrs
Bomb 7/2/12
Still living together