The big D bomb, as scary as it seems, has lost its scare factor on me. I think you are starting to see that?
It's not some crazy fast thing that is horrible-its actualy a long drawn out pain in the butt process. And IMHO I don't even think your H has completly aligned with the entire concept. Seems as if he has a lot of confusion still.
What's his rush to come to a decision right now anyway? Does he think D will solve his problems? Bc honestly it will add to his financial stress, guilt and heartache.
Seems like he is just spinning round and round. You stand back, don't let him pull you in. And I am so proud of your ability to be at peace. With all of the variables he has in his own mind, the last thing you need to do is get loud, in his face, and add to it. Keep your butt on the blanket! <3
I agree to seek legal council, but I wouldn't initiate D talk or push for the next step in the process. Let's have another slice of pie and we will politly respond to him if and when it is appropiate.
Got your back Zig
Me-31 H-24 D3,D2 M 4 yrs WAW(me) 12/2011 role reversal 03/2012 (H)PA 3-6/2012 (H)D filed 6/2012 D deemed "inactive", closed 8/2012 I've moved on 9/2012
