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[NASCARDaddy]

BC I know that this is going to be hard to hear, I know it was for me, but you may have to take a step back. If she is saying that she feels smothered then she may need some time to sort things out. Don't leave your home or your kids but you may have to leave her side for awhile. One of the biggest mistakes I made in my marriage was that I continued to push her to make a decision. If I hadn't done that she might not have decided to file for divorce. So do yourself a favor, step back, breath and GAL, just make sure that she knows that you are there for her when she is ready.