He is REALLY unsure of himself. It seems like he doesn't believe how much you care for/love him, but it's NOT from anything you are doing or not doing-it's all in his head!! Silly, silly man!! (& prob. very guilty conscience!)
Have fun in Phoenix, and have a great time w/h next weekend. (surely, we'll talk before then) Just keep doing what you are doing-listening and comforting and reassuring h, but realize that it is not your "job" to make him feel better. Is he on med's?
On the other hand, maybe he feels like he needs to be punished by you. Yaknowwhatimean? Maybe you need to let him have it and whap him upside the head.
sorry-going in 2 totally diff. directions here, but just something for you to think about.
