I'm going to ask this in a leading way. Are you doing the majority of the housework because you WANT to?
IOW, are you looking for brownie points with your W or just because you like and want to?
I will believe you if you say you wrote the above because you are letting us know how you are improving yourself. It just comes off as though you are making a list of "look at me, I'm a good H and my W should notice and come back to me" thought.
Just an observation. Otherwise, if you are doing all of that, again, just because you want to and believe it is a great improvement to you, whether your M lasts or not... awesome...
The other bit was about your joke about winning the lottery.
Is that a complaint with your W? That money is in short supply? Or is it just something that you think would be great... again, regardless of your W or your M?