Actually the course and emotions are not an excuse. They are a very valid point. It is far more important to know what load you can carry. The schooling is extremely important.
This is not placing yourself in limbo. This is getting on with your life. If she files then you will have to deal with it.
Wow I needed to hear that, because that just validates exactly how I've been feeling these last couple of weeks.
Just because I'm not actively trying to save my M because of the sitch & generic WAW attitude, doesn't mean I have to be in a hurry to try & end my M, which could potentially jeopardise my future career.
I get it!! Thanks for putting it in your own words and explaining it better to me
I'm slowly getting my confidence and self esteem back now, which has everything to do with being able to completely detach, and as you phrase it 'let go of the rope' that kept on pulling me back in with unrealistic expectations and for my emotions to be hit out the park.
The best advice is always the hardest to take, when people say, 'you have to let them go', I get what that means to me now.
When you let go, you find yourself again, you grow as a person and become stronger.
You find your core, work out what's important in your life and you work on it and nurture it.
That's when you start enjoying YOUR life again, that's when you become good company again, that's when you become more attractive and that's when YOU'RE ready to move on with YOUR life.
This is the goal, this is my goal.
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13
