"Worry"....imo is fear. You have to let the fear go. You cannot control her or make her see something she chooses not to. Just be you bro....be the man she would be crazy to leave.
As for question....do what you feel is right. Want to kiss her...then kiss her. Want to tell her you love her...tell it. Trust yourself brother....but first let go of the fear. A lot of times we hold on Because of fear instead of love. You did not answer my question....what do you do for you...no kids no wife... just you?
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans