thanks for what you said vera - it's one more calming element for me to add to my sitch.

i had read your post before meeting h, and at one point i did ask him 'how long do you think this will take?" i was surprised at how calmly he answered - noting ever goes fast in this world - it's going to take a while

but I want to make sure we reach a fair settlement and however long it takes to do that, so be it.

yes, i feel exactly the same way. I want things to be fair, and i do believe h wants the same, but i have no idea, i will just focus on my part in it

me 46 H 38
M10yrs T 11
S10
BD ow 8/11
h filed 9/25/12


"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"