Why do people keep saying I’ve been given a gift, the gift of time? Sh!t, this doesn’t seem like a damn gift!!!! Is it because some couples go straight to divorce?
Hahahaha... Yeah, tough to see this as a gift for sure.
But it is in ways. It is the gift of time for you to work on you, your personal shortcomings as a H, a father, a stepfather, or whatever... to work on making you a better man.
Unfortunately, sometimes to learn and grow in this life, we have to suffer through terrible times. At the end however, if we have grown and learned, we are better for it.
If that is the outcome of this, you will ultimately see it as a gift... but you will never see it as one of the better times of your life.
Believe it and you will get through it.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
