Eric, My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this sorrowful time. I'm sure your grandmother is in a better place and is w/o pain. She's watching over you and your family now and it at peace.
Your children are growing up quickly and they appear to be doing quite well. I'm glad to see that things have settled down for you and the children. Take things slowly w/your lady friend and learn to trust once again. I know...it's difficult when someone close to you has cheated on you and the trust goes right out the window. But, I do believe that you can learn to trust again and if your lady friend is able to communicate w/you and you both can lay your thoughts on the table, you'll be okay.
Take care of yourself. Life has a way of turning things around and it looks like you've got a few new adventures heading your way!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
