Actually the course and emotions are not an excuse. They are a very valid point. It is far more important to know what load you can carry. The schooling is extremely important.

This is not placing yourself in limbo. This is getting on with your life. If she files then you will have to deal with it.

But again. Its on your own time.

See. Keep this rope dropped and move on.

As DB says.

Do what works.

And this path will work for you.

It sets up the second part of your life.

Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul.
unconditional love is awesome!