yep. Total transparency. Life has been great guys. Picture perfect marriage until 2 weeks ago... I know our children stress her out because they don't behave very well, typical kid behavior.
I heard her tell her mother there's no one else, and that she learned her lesson last time.
she told her mom that she feels like her and I are on 'different levels' in this relationship, and that she feels smothered.
I have not gone back to any old behaviors. That man has been long gone.
I am attentive, compassionate, loving, patient, helpful, everything I could be.
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love
First off, try not to push to hard. She will talk when she is ready. A therapist may help her sort out her thoughts.
What things are you doing for YOU? Sounds like you are great hubby and dad...but what do you do for yourself?
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
"Worry"....imo is fear. You have to let the fear go. You cannot control her or make her see something she chooses not to. Just be you bro....be the man she would be crazy to leave.
As for question....do what you feel is right. Want to kiss her...then kiss her. Want to tell her you love her...tell it. Trust yourself brother....but first let go of the fear. A lot of times we hold on Because of fear instead of love. You did not answer my question....what do you do for you...no kids no wife... just you?
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
