But you can't use that as an excuse or a crutch. Many people are diagnosed with depression but with counselling and/or medication they can live wonderful lives.
If you want the best possible life for yourself - step out of the self pity (we have all been there) and pick up your pieces - one at a time. Make YOU the best YOU and the rest will fall into place.
I am a SURVIVOR. You need to become a SURVIVOR too.