IMO, when someone is in a CRISIS they do not see it. They cannot understand it.
Funny, I spoke with my Mom yesterday (recent death in the family) and she was explaining to me what SHE went through. Man it was tough to hear. She admitted to feeling like she was in a (exact quote here) "fog". She admitted to feeling this way for 10 years. She was quite remorseful of some of her actions during her crisis and even admitted that sometime it still comes back...sometime she still feels like she is in a fog.
Nero, I have not read your entire sitch...but my advise is to listen to folks here that stress....detachment and focusing on YOU. It really is the only way through this.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
