Hi Water, I'm not a wise veteran on MLC, but I like talking to you! So ppllllbbf!
You sound good. I'm so glad you decided to pamper yourself for vday! It's nice that H called you! A def. +!! And it is nice of you to reassure him since he REALLY needs it. I think as time goes on, he will feel more comfy and safe with you.
Keep up the good work! Oh, I had an idea...what happened to you saying things like, "you have to find a little butterfly, etc."? If flirting WORKS for you two right now, why not throw some in there?