Keep this question at the forefront of your mind whenever you interact with your H, "will what I am doing get me closer to my goal or further away?"
That particular interaction did not help you. What exactly was your intent there? To catch him in a lie?
What if the TM was meant for you? You just projected your assumption onto your H and spun the whole thing in a negative light.
You have to utilize each opportunity to demonstrate the new and improved Vero.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa