Resentment, anger, she might not want to go back to counseling because she might think that I am not trying something she wants.
I think She was already thinking about trying a week apart then felt a pull to ask me because of the MC saying we spent waaaaaaay too much time to close together.. I already told her I would do it, I said I would be open to it as long as we could spend half the time at home and half the time somewhere else. In other words I would spend 4 days at mutual friends house while she was home alone then switch. I didn't want to feel like I was going to be booted from our house but I wanted to compromise vs. shutting it down.
Now the big test for me is whether she initiates the suggestion of a no strings attached date like the MC said to try.
How did I do?
Me - 30 W - 28 M 4 t 6 ILYBINILWY #1 Jan - 2011 Band-aid Jan 11' ILYBINILWY #2 7/28/12