I have to be quick here so I can't fully respond but I am glad you had joann to talk to yesterday.
not to also assume that he wants to talk D, but a few things... The cooling off period is short, yes, but I assume that you still have to give your consent at the end of that time before it can be "done" so just bc that pd ends doesn't mean it's final. Also when I talked to cheryl about this period I said that I didn't want to openly contest this to drag it out and she pointed out that it would take time to work out a fair agreement so I just keep reminding myself that i'm not going to rush, this isn't my emergency, but I want to make sure we reach a fair settlement and however long it takes to do that, so be it.
