There are so many things wrong with this text. 1-we don't say honey to each other or any other words of endearment. 2-I never asked how he was doing so why put "I'm good"?
He's text me before when it was meant for her. However this was like a year ago. I approached him about it and the conversation spun around where I had to leave and recollect myself.
I came back apologizing that I need to direct my anger in other ways and not at him. I was bringing up resentment and I was working on that.
He said he stopped talking to her over a month ago and he worded the text wrong. I couldn't let it go so later tonite I called him and said, if that text was meant for me then prove it. Show me your cell call log. He said he'd do it but didn't think I should be doing that. He said he would just be feeding my obsession.
Things have been sooo good with us but now I feel it's time to go dark. He sounded upset when I called him out on proving it to me. He said I should ask my therapist if that's a good idea because he believes it's not. To me, these are all signs of him lying, which is why I want to go dark. I don't want to do it to get back at him. I want to do it because it's the next step when something like this happens.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
