A Huddle of Turtles

[strongerthanever]

Zig,

There are documents that need to be filled with the courts in order for anything to proceed (sworn financial statement, parenting plan...) He hasn't done anything. Any paperwork given to the court must also be given to the S, as the court clerk says "you can not have a conversation with the court without your S knowing about it".

So, nothing. Nothing at all beyond the "Ha! I filled!" statement. I have since left him alone to his thoughts. I think had I felt the need to control and force him to make a decision, we would be well on our way to being divorced. There is a 90 day cooling off period here (Colorado), and we are 60 days in.

But you know what? Should we move forward, I'm ok! I'm ok either way. If the wrong man wants to step aside so the right man can enter then get to steppin'

I'll put a slice of key lime pie on serenity for ya. Works wonders for me.