the first thing I did to gain some self esteem ( independence )
I went out and did something the wife would not like.
I bought speakers.
7.2 surround sound. Open baffle. 2 subs... 15 inch 350 watts each.
Something I always wanted.
Here was a chance to do something I wanted. That I never had the nerve to do.
I was in charge.
They came on a skid. My buddy had a large truck. We filled it up. The subs weighed 160 pounds each. Then the fronts and centre were open baffle. 5 cross overs. The 4 sides were two ways....
Yea..... That felt good. It was healthy.
I know of others who went out and bought a drum set and set it up in the living room.
Others who always wished to run the Seattle Marathon ( lived on the east side of another country ) so they went there ran the race and then spent a week at North by North West.
See the point I am making. Do something for yourself. This [censored]. So make something yours that when you look at it or think about it.
You think. Yea I was in the [censored]. But look at this swag. This I did for myself. A reward for myself.
Yea..... The best thing I did after the bomb. Speakers. And each and every day I enjoy them.
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