I'm in the same boat rowing with you babe! I have no idea if we are going in the right direction either.
But God knows...he ordained marriage so as long as you and I are standing firm for our marriages God is too! We are DOING the right thing...it's up to h to give us direction. We'll have to keep praying for them to gain God-centered direction.
You are right. Keep doing the right thing! God's on your side.