Originally Posted By: Breakdown
I'm just going to let her lead and see what happens.


Good. cool

Originally Posted By: Breakdown
I definitely get the sense that she's feeling me out, trying to see where my mind is.


Be careful with the above. You could very well be right.

Do what you can to not allow yourself to get into a R talk.

For example, her saying that she doesn't want to wear out her welcome? Sounds like an opportunity to tell her that she'd never wear out her welcome. Instead of going there, just show her. Keep doing what you are doing so she always does feel welcome.