He wants a divorce but he was expecting me to give it to him and I said "no". I got sick because he said he was going to give it to me and that he was going to get a lawyer. He called me before I went to work to tell me those things. (I tried to type as much as I could on my crappy blackberry.)-Anyways today I was feeling down because it's our wedding anniversary and we are in this situation. I tried not to think about it but it's hard. I was doing better, I didn't call him or txted him for four days until he called me yesterday to drop the bomb! Today I called home and my mom said that H came over to see the little one during his lunch break and asked about my whereabouts. (????)