I have reread the post chatterbug and I'm prepared to deal with it. Actually, its quiet without her at home and I don't have to think about what she may say to me. If her plan is to go out with the OM more to make me upset, I don't see how that changes what she has already been doing. So far, not a great plan. Being alone [censored], but I'm starting to get used to it. This will make it easier to start NC with her and to continue to GAL. I'm still too attached to her.
I did talk to her on the phone, but I followed the rules on keeping it to kids and finances. It felt good to be just business with her and I could tell she was confused when she tried to start a friendly talk on the weather and I nicely said "I'm not sure what the weather is now. Anything else I can help you with? No, okay then good bye."
____________________________________ Me: 42 WW: 46 Married: 14y D-Day: 5/18/2012 D 12, S 8 Status: In my room, but A Continues